Friday, January 22, 2010

It's been a while...



I really hope to update this blog more... especially now that I am not working! I need to find things to keep me busy so I don't go stir crazy and get another job... lol!! (seriously though.)

This week has been a rough one. On Monday we thought we were having a 4th child already... and Tuesday our world changed quickly when we discovered the baby was no longer alive. It's been hard, even though it was unexpected... we really started to love the idea of another baby coming.

I had a d&c yesterday and slept all day today, thanks to my friends! Danny mentioned to me when this all happened, that maybe "we are supposed to be learning something from this"... obviously he is correct, as the Lord usually works that way. One thing I have learned for sure, is the amazing friends I have! I have been brought to tears over there willingness to take my kids for the day, or bring dinner, or come over with girl movies and goodies, etc... the list goes on and on! I have also learned how much more I need to be there for my friends. I want to be that kind of friend too. I love you girls, thank you for making life not so hard sometimes.

~Kati





9 comments:

Katie said...

Oh Katie! I am so sorry to hear that. Danny was so happy when he came to home teach us and told us the news. Hope you are feeling tons better! Sounds like you've had lots of help, but if you need any thing else I'm always home!

The Scotts said...

I love you and your cute family!!! You are such a great friend and I am lucky to have you as one. We are so sorry for your loss.

Tanner and Shasta said...

Hey sweetheart! I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your baby, that breaks my heart. I'm so glad you posted. I've been wondering how you guys have been. :)

Amy Hall said...

I LOVE you and your sweet family! Seriously let me know when I can have them over for awhie!

Coree Adams said...

The Lord definitely always has a purpose, as hard as it is to see at times. Love ya girl! Enjoy not working!

Kelly said...

Hi Kati, I haven't looked at blogs in a LONG time. I had no idea. I am so sorry. We think we have control, and then poof! We see that we don't.
Your friends are awesome. Your kids are so beautiful! And of course you are too.

Briann said...

your little family is so cute, love the new pictures. Im so sorry for the loss, I actually miscarried at 10 wks before I had Leah. BUT Heavenly Father has a plan for us and will send you another one when you are ready! :)

Ami Bethea said...

Love ya Kati!

Ami Bethea said...

Love ya Kati!